A little boy gave her hope for her foster daughter’s future

One September day earlier this year, Natalie Cook brought her 2-year-old foster daughter to the park. Like most kids, Cook’s daughter loves going down the slides and riding the swings. For Cook, however, these outings can be stressful. Her foster daughter was born prematurely, and she uses a walker to get around.

“I never know how the kids are going to react with her walker,” Cook said. “Some kids will run off with [it], or they just stare at her.”

On this particular outing, things were going well. Cook’s daughter was going from one piece of equipment to another, having a nice time. After a few minutes, a boy approached and asked, “what’s wrong with her?”

“I froze,” Cook recalled. “I wasn’t sure how to explain her disability to an adult, let alone a child.”

Cook explained that her daughter had been born much smaller than other babies, and that it’s taking some time for her to catch up with other kids her age. Satisfied with Cook’s answer, the little boy ran off to play with his friends. But after a few more minutes, he returned and began playing with Cook’s daughter.

“He was pushing her on the swing, and then he started to even pick up on the sign language I was using to ask her if she wanted to ‘keep swinging’ or to ‘[be] done.'”

Soon, the boy had convinced his friends to come over and join.

“He started telling them about her disability and what she could do, not what she couldn’t do,” Cook said, laughing. “He was like a proud little mom.”

Before she knew it, the whole park was cheering Cook’s daughter along. Seemingly everyone there picked up on the sign language and helped her navigate the playground equipment.

“I was just in awe because I’ve never seen anything like this at the park. And my heart was just so, so full,” Cook said.

“[The little boy] saw past her disability. She was just another kid to him, and he could include her in his day. It was just a really sweet moment to know there’s still kids out there like that, and [that] my daughter’s going to be in good hands as she gets older.”

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