Joseph says it was dangerous and his family didn’t get paid much. Here he can send money back to his family, so they can save he says. And when they have enough, Joseph says his family will pay smugglers to bring them over the border. It’s a common practice for many Hispanic families who enter this country illegally. Kathy Casler is a director at Gateway, a Birmingham mental health service provider. Casler says the stress across the border from that trip can linger for years.
“Some of them just had horrific experiences with people taking advantage of them. Abusing them, ya know people they were paying to bring them into the county. Ya know they have some serious post traumatic stress issues.”
“You get the guy who you can tell he’s all about power. Just the way he covers the issues in there. And he talks about different topics. The way he addresses his wife or talks about her in the group. Ya know, MY home, MY family MY wife. And you get the guy who that, maybe he had a couple drinks and a bad day at work, not to make excuses for anything that they’ve done. But you hear all the stories.”
Werther says the reasons for abuse might vary. But the response from Latinas is often the same. They don’t come forward. So why is that? Well, again it’s cultural, says Isabel Rubio of the Hispanic Interest Coalition of Alabama or HICA.
“In the Latino Community, often times the women stay home, take care of the house and the family, and so they become isolated from the broader community.”
Not only do the women find themselves alone, Rubio says, they’re trying to navigate new customs and norms.
“They dont really know how to acclimate themselves here. It’s no secret that in Latin American communities’ law enforcement is often very corrupt. And so here, you see anybody in uniform, they get suspicious — can they put me in jail can they deport me. And not knowing who to trust, that takes a real toll psychologically on people.”
Rubio says that’s important because if women don’t feel they can trust the authorities, they won’t report the abuse. Counselors say that can embolden the men which could escalate the violence. But even if hispanic women did report the abuse, Rubio acknowledges the system is woefully underprepared to help latina’s with their domestic violence problems.
You’re inside a weekly women’s group, sponsored by HICA and local mental health provider Oasis. And while the focus isnt always on surviving abuse, Rubio says resources are often used to help women overcome domestic violence.
“All the way from we’re just helping them understand where they can get help in terms of become safe in the crisis situation. To getting the mental health services that they need. To brokering the court system. And once all the legal and immediate issues are taken care of, then helping women learn to stand on their own two feet and so forth.”
But the group doesn”t just teach women how to be free from abuse. Rubio says it also reminds them how to have fun.
Rubio says providing the women with a social outlet helps reinforce norms that might be forgotten when the women are alone. So by hearing stories of how others in the group are living, women can judge how their situation stacks up. Having that support system is vital, Rubio says. Eckart Werther agrees and adds that providers have to have a consistent presence in the community if domestic violence rates are going to be curbed.
“Because that Hispanic community is a relationship community. You have to build that relationship, that trust, in order to be able to offer those services.”
Of course, building that trust takes time, resources and money. Kathy Casler says there aren’t enough grants to provide the comprehensive services needed to slow domestic violence. That’s not to say Casler thinks money alone is going to fix all the problems. Latinos account for the fastest growing segment of the population in the greater Birmingham area according to census estimates. But Casler says there aren’t enough qualified bilingual counselors, psychologists, psychiatrists, in the job market. Casler points to Gateway’s own job hunt for a bi-lingual counselor.
“It’s hard getting them! Weve probably advertised for two years. There just aren’t that many bi-lingual people out there that have the credentials to offer the services. So we felt really lucky to get Eckart. And we’ve planned Eckart’s future for him. He finishes graduate school in May, and we’re just counting the months till he finishes so we can put him in other services.”
Providing other services—preventative services—might be the key to curbing domestic violence in the community. Back in Hoover, down the street from where the men wait for work, two newly immigrated women talk with Catholic counselor Brenda Bulloch at the multi-cultural center. This is where Gateway provides a weekly counseling service. Bullock says more people are asking for a wide ranges of services from help with taxes to counseling sessions.
“And we’re here to listen to their problems, and people come here and they come for guidance, you know tell them what they think they should do.”
The center has become a hub for the community, something that excites Bulloch. Her hope is that the center can help guide a family through tough times, without someone getting hurt.
— John Sepulvado, May 18, 2006